Wondering About Sapience

Traditional Chinese Medicine identifies 12 major organs and corresponding meridians that work together and in combination with the vital substances to achieve balance in the body. You can become anything you like. But when you apply all of these - meditation, diet, yoga and prayer - over a period of time to …

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I Am A Late-night Snacker

Like maintaining this friendship, or getting this bit of work done, doing this, that or the other, to the point where I'm cramming so much into all of my time, I never have any time to just relax and clear my mind. They do not go to the hospital for …

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Where Is The Common Ground?

Cut it short. They made dinner reservations at a five-star/five-diamond French restaurant in Rancho Bernardo. The aspiring best-seller keeps sitting down day after day to chip away at their manuscript in progress--but is kept frozen by knowledge of the overwhelming odds stacked against them, the difficulty of a single …

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Bubbling Spring

You could buy yourself a beautiful notearticle or use your PC - whatever works for you. In the next section, we'll take a look at how getting the proper amount of healthy, restful sleep on a regular basis can help alleviate your symptoms of depression. Or, worse, what did she know …

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Growing Independently

At that point, the year before, she had decided she could not make enough money at art, and chose instead to pursue a degree in social work. In addition to perceiving others in a stereotyped way, we also apply stereotypes to ourselves. People will notice whether or not you're listening …

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It's Too Big A Change

They arise in exceptional psychological situations that do not fit into the previous process. In a sense, we have dealt with thinking in the structuring and confronting sections. I am still taken aback by how many of my non-solo friends have a simultaneously smug and morbid curiosity about how I …

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Bolstering Self-Esteem

It was so moving for me to sit quietly with each person who shared their story, and it will be moving--and intimate--for you to read them. But still, the range of mental health codes now runs to over 300, with many subtypes and subcategories, so it's still a notable expansion …

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Can You Describe Your Authentic Self?

I'm still trying to find a happy medium between the sweater twinsets I used to wear and the more recent tank tops, Eleanor admitted sheepishly. When you allow yourself to indulge in imagining your Inner Critic's worst-case scenarios, your brain operates as if those worst-case scenarios are already occurring. This …

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The Winter Of 1987

More than that, in having let down the people who meant the most to me in my life, including myself, because I did something wrong, I thought it made me something wrong. His thoughts were flimsy, he recorded, like loose and dry sand, which the closer it is grasped slips …

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Best Friend Or Parent?

As you get more experienced, you will need to build on them. It was a paradigm that mirrored the way the world really works. Then a glimmer of some forgotten fragment buried deep in my brain started to surface, and I remembered segments of a article I had been reading …

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Seven Hours Of Daylight At A Time

There is no factor in the thought of butter, or high-fat cottage cheese is better than a further gift. It's a stark indication of just how severely the brainwashing distorts our perceptions, that anyone should come to regard something that is destroying them and making them miserable as a friend …

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Mighty Oaks From Little Acorns Grow

For Malcolm, at least, I felt that the talking was an even bigger plus to their arrangement than the sex. More than half of the volunteers had continued to practice regular meditation and was able to achieve lower anxiety levels in their day to day lives. On a dark, lonely …

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Filter Out Approving

I'm quite sure that if my friend were to have had this same conversation with others in the room, there would be a fair smack of them who would fail to understand the concept, because they are not in the One-Chancer headspace, due to their age, or stage of life …

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It Doesn't Matter What They Do

Without the toxic shame, the flashbacks are just human experiences, and everybody has experiences like that. The boys, Lucas and Harry, ages five and seven, asked if they were going on a trip. So it's up to us, to you, to draw some boundaries and optimise your own physical and …

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I Am Generous With Animals

The reason for this is that all relationships are assignments, because, as the Course teaches us, the obstacles we face in all relationships are opportunities for optimal growth. You can publish your own work, distribute your own music, create your own products, or attract your own funding. Louise and I …

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Doing This Is Fun, And We Can't Lose

But something about Sam rubbed Xenia the wrong way. It was the adventure that was irresistible, basically, he told me, but there was the by-product that Virgin as a brand became an adventurous brand, a sexy brand, and I think some of these adventures did actually help with that. My …

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Talking To Your Body

Unfortunately, when it comes to information, the popular health industry is almost as unreliable as the federal government. Those who suffer from such infirmities must set up a different train of suggestions by saying things like, "I'm not nervous, I'm well and full of confidence, all is going well..." Likewise …

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It's Been One Darn Thing After Another

It juts out from the shoreline, separating the calm, peaceful water close to shore from the turbulent active water in the distant sea. Until baby Katrina's death, we'd enjoyed what most people would probably casually observe as an enviable life: happily married parents, four ambitious and achieving daughters and a …

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Awareness Makes Acknowledging Possible

During the Nazi occupation of Europe, a substantial number of non-Jewish individuals protected Jews whom the Nazis would have killed outright or sent to concentration camps. Feeling physiologically in crisis (from excess cortisol and adrenaline), crisis-prone people have a tendency to create crises around them to make sense of how …

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